“Smiling is contagious". Who said that? I always thought that that was just something your self-hating 1st grade teacher said to you because she had to. I’ve come to find out recently that not only is it true, but that smiling is only scratching the surface in the kind of influence one can have as a mere "passer-by". Intrigued, I decided to run an experiment to see what I could do to make someone’s day brighter.
#1 most effective: A compliment
Would you not agree? This is just personal enough for them to feel really special. Even if the receiver see's you as a weirdo (even as a creeper), they cannot help but feel a little bit better about themselves.
#2: a Wink
This is my favorite. You can say So much without saying anything at all. The usual reaction is a double take - look of confusion - a grin. So quick and So effective.
#3: a Smile
Classic and fool proof. It often happens that the receiver does not smile back, but don’t let that get you down. Though it may not show then, it makes them happier.
These work on anyone; teacher, boss, hobo, etc. I would recommend trying them ;)
2 comments:
Winking is also my favorite, and I've had a few memorable consequences from it . . .
I remember the way Wayne flinched in Sacrament......oh Wayne
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